Rising Above Negativity: A Personal Story
Dear Tritek Family,
I want to take a moment to step away from business updates and share something deeply personal with you. Over the past year, I went through a season of unexpected pain, one that I never thought I’d experience at this stage of my life and career.
I became a victim of cyberbullying. Messages, threats, and negativity seemed to come at me from all directions, and for months, I carried this weight in silence. It shook me to my core. My confidence, something I had always taken pride in, started to slip away. I found myself second-guessing everything; my leadership, my voice, and even my place in the world.
As someone who teaches resilience and growth, I never thought I’d struggle with social anxiety the way I did. But this experience taught me something powerful: we are all human. No amount of success or leadership exempts us from pain, and no amount of strength means we don’t sometimes break.
But here’s what I’ve learned, and what I want to share with anyone going through a difficult season:
- Your Worth Isn’t Defined by Opinions
People will project their pain and insecurities onto you. That doesn’t make their words true. The loudest voices are often the ones that matter least. - Protect Your Space
I had to make tough decisions, including cutting ties with negativity, even when it came from unexpected places. Protecting your peace is not optional; it’s a necessity. - Ask for Help
I reached out for support from loved ones, fellow leaders, and even law enforcement when necessary. Asking for help is not weakness; it’s wisdom. - Rebuild Confidence Daily
Healing isn’t instant. Confidence is rebuilt day by day, moment by moment, choice by choice. I’m still on that journey, but I’m proud of how far I’ve come.
This experience has been tough, but it has also reshaped me as a leader. I’m more determined than ever to create safe spaces for myself, my family, my team, and the incredible community we serve.
To anyone facing cyberbullying, negativity, or any form of attack: you are not alone. Your voice matters. Your story matters. And no amount of darkness can extinguish a light that chooses to keep shining.
Thank you for allowing me to share my heart with you. I hope this encourages someone to keep going today.
With love and strength,
Dr. Adeshola Cole
CEO & Founder
Tritek Academy
